I want to tell you about that 4-letter word. It’s ELLA. It is an acronym I made up so I can easily remember when I am in any situation — especially a difficult one:
E = Enjoy. Is there something I can enjoy?
L = Love. Is there an opportunity to love?
L = Learn. What can I learn from this?
A = Appreciate. What can I appreciate right now?
There is always something we can focus on instead of blaming, shaming, and feeling bad. ELLA helps me. Maybe it can help you?
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